Look at Her with Love

What is most important in a relationship between husband and wife?

LOVE!

But, how do you show it?

Simply look at her in the eyes, and feel the love you have in your heart. No word needed. Your eyes can tell her all.

You know how fragile it is a relationship. It takes two to tango. Your participation is required.

She is busy at home. Some are lucky enough to have someone to help them with the cleaning. Some others don't.

Well, she might complain once in a while, but...isn't it normal, don't you think? You also complain a bit bout your work, about your boss...

So, don't see her complaints as a request of divorce. She just needs someone to listen to her, to be there for her after such a 'busy' day. Nobody can do it better than you, her husband.

Listen to her, look her in the eyes and show her that she is loved.

Let Her Cry

I'm not a sappy lady. But, hey, I admit that I need to cry once in a while. Previously, my hubby didn't understand it. He complained every time I cried and know what, my cry was getting even longer and louder--oh not that loud, just a little sobbing, I was exaggerated.

So, what is best?

Just let her cry.

Most women feel better after they cry--actually men do, too, but you just don't like to admit it, right?

After they're done with crying, they will be able to talk about things in a more reasonable way. Well, at least I do.

Yeah, just let her cry, for your own good!

She's a Wife and a Mother, Not a SLAVE

Men, you think that after working the whole day outside home, you deserve the luxury of rest. You hate it when your wife can't make your kids stop screaming, you hate it when she hasn't finished her cooking, you hate it when you get home and see that the house is still a mess.

You wonder, "What the hell she's been doing the whole day?"

Oh, since you ask, here are the answers:

• She has been trying to clean up the whole house, but your toddler kept nagging her since he didn't feel well.
• She picked up the girls and had to stop by at the headmaster's office because they defended themselves from the boys who kept making fun of them yet the headmaster thought that they had problems with attitude. She spent about an hour there, trying to make things clear.
• She went to the hypermarket to buy the groceries but hey, the kids were kinda on the blink, so she forgot to buy the most important ingredient for the dinner she would be preparing for you so she had to go back there because--remember yesterday--you wanted her to prepare that special meal!
• She got home very late. And, the girls' outfits were a mess. She needed to put them in the laundry right away so they won't get ruined and still can be used--which might save you lots of money rather than having to buy the girls new outfits.

So, do you still think she was just lying there and did nothing? Well, you are wrong.

Instead of adding craziness into her day, why don't you cuddle her, give her a soft massage on her back and help her with the cooking. She is your wife, the mother of your kids and not at all your slave.